I prefer to wait a little and get to know each other more, and if you’re not okay with that, then I totally understand and we might not be a good fit for each other”?A woman’s ability to walk away from a man and see how he responds to her stated needs is an essential tool for women in today’s dating world.I’ve seen enough women in my lifetime be absolutely crushed by thinking that having sex with a man means sealing the relationship deal, when that’s not at all what he was thinking or looking for.I’m not saying that you have to disengage from all physical relations, but certain acts can be a very emotional thing for a lot of women, so when it does happen it’s not as easy as you think to bounce back if the guy disappears or loses interest.If she doesn’t have sex with me soon then I am going to keep it moving.” Again, waiting this long might still make him lose interest, because if he is dating another woman at the same time as you and likes her just as much as you, but she is having sex with him then she might grab his attention, and then, before you know it, he isn’t calling you as much as he used to.There was actually a story on ABC dateline about a woman who would just go out with guys so that they could buy her dinner. So from a man’s perspective he doesn’t want to waste his time and money on a woman who he feels has no interest in him sexually.Whether you love or loathe Tinder, there is no denying it has changed online dating forever.As a result there is now no end of apps with the same aim of helping you fall in love and live happily ever after, or at the least find someone to hang out with next weekend.
I appreciate how this conversation ended in a when it comes to dating and sex.
Sleeping with a man so quickly simply out of the fear that he’ll ditch you for someone else is the wrong way to go, in my opinion.
Now, if a woman is comfortable with this sort of casual sex and can detach herself from the outcome, then I say more power to her.
Mostly, though, I’d like to respond to your “he might start to lose interest” comment.
I teach women to have boundaries and to not do things that go contrary to their needs out of fear of losing someone.