You can be and you should be honest about what you want.Not just because it’s the right thing to do but it’s what men do, you set your terms and she can either accept them or leave.Let’s start with a good rule of thumb: Sexually active relationships should be limited to committed or exclusive situations.I’m not going to preach morality to you, and I understand this is the 21st century.You’re a fabulous lady, and he will still want to see you again. Besides, if there’s one thing that drives a man crazy, it’s experiencing the exquisite fireworks of a home run and then being denied the opportunity to step up to the plate the next time he wants to take a swing. Don’t just deliver the goods to him in a gorgeous, perfumed package. Have some actual fun together with your clothes on.
You’re the girl he thinks of first when he wants to share some good news or needs a shoulder to lean on for comfort.
Your ability to get him to need you on a personal and emotional level is the ultimate power that will bind him to you for the long term. How can you parley his physical need and desire for you into a committed love connection? If you want to stand out from the other girls he’s dating, you have to be the one who is not just in his bed but also in his life.
First of all, don’t let every date end up in the bedroom. Try to do things together that are just part of everyday life — no pressure, no expectations, no strings.
Good relationships work because you both like those special things about the other that only he or only she can offer.
Players like things about women that they all have in common. It doesn’t matter where you get a bushel of corn, a barrel of oil or a bar of gold.