Still, introverts, especially men, who Hartman and Cain agreed face different expectations than women, may find it difficult to ask out someone they've been messaging."That’s a lot to ask for someone who’s introverted, especially in an area already outside of his comfort zone," Hartman said.In the book they discuss the pros and cons of the different options facing them. With thousands of new apps and sites being created faster than we can download them, it’s hard to know where to start.Even if you used to successfully online date, but have found yourself single again, it can be difficult to know exactly what sites you need to be surfing.“I would tell them to accept the fact that they have to make the first move.There are women who won’t respond, and that’s okay." Introverts will meet all kinds of people as a result of online dating, both introverts and extroverts.
"They’re afraid that everybody sees them, and then they realize that nobody sees them.Dating profiles tend to be really generic because people don't want to scare potential partners by "sounding too different or too odd, not realizing that it actually backfires," Hartman said.When writing your profile, you should do the opposite.“If you’re at home reading Tolkien, you’re not a fun person," Hartman said facetiously."I think people would not be honest about that kind of stuff, and they should be honest.” Hartman advises that people identify as introverted through their Myers-Briggs type, because many people are familiar with the indicator and may know a loved one who's similar.